I realized I needed to have faith what I was doing was moving me forward and focus to keep doing what I had been doing even if there seemed to be little return right away.
I'll let you know how that works for my business, but I know it works for relationships.
You see, it is common to want instant gratification when a change is made. I often see my couples get frustrated because they are making the healthy moves, but emotionally don't feel like their relationship is changing for the better. They want to give up, lose faith and lose their focus.
If they are truly making the moves (have to focus to do it and continue doing it) then they will move forward. I often see it before they do. (Like I saw the hearts in the tire tracks above.) What they need to keep in mind is (like marketing) these changes take time.
Do you even find yourself frustrated with making healthy moves and getting what you think is zero positives from it? Do you give up or stop doing the healthy things? Do you lose faith? Do you stop focusing?
Your courageous work and this week's relationship resolution is to keep doing the healthy things. Have faith and focus so that you can keep moving forward to a freer, happy, rewarding relationship.
By the way, did you notice I also got in an awesome alliteration with this post? I rock!
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